Help/small and simply

I just wanted to say a few things I've learned about my hair since I cut the relaxer off...

1) Totally twisted conditioner is a no good as a leave in for me. It makes my scalp very greasy, and I have thick hair so moisture is something I need.

2) Wash and go's: can anybody please tell me if its truly bad for me to co-wash my very 3-4 days and to wash and go more than once a week? Because I love doing this..

3) I have not used a curl definer like gel. cheap gel, my Garnier fruitis leave in curl and shine works just as good, its boarder line of thick and thin but light even for me to use and not get a greasy scalp like TTC.

4)My shampoo and conditioner: Bed head mega nutrions, best thing I have ever used in my life, its was my frist shampoo and conditioner I used since my journey. Extremely great product but not cheap [I coped this on a sale]

5)Me and Moose are not friends we are not even associatesI used it as a wash and go once and my hair frizzed up like I was a christmas tree O_o

6)I will wrap my hair up with a satin scarf and my hair will get flat...Does that make any sense? My hair is short enough to make a tiny thing at the end of a ponytail.

7)I have sometype of curls, ones that I like alot, but the hair thats above the ear, and a tiny bit on the bottom of my neck are 4c type hair. Its fine because they will be covered my my massive curls and when fluffed out adds alot of volume to my hair which it great. But why is it like that? It has not curls. When I relaxed my hair, my hair took it very well, but I guy those are my hair rebels.

8)Whenever my hair is dry I co wash it, leave in condish and maybe twist them out. I usually do that because with the satin scarf my hair loses its curls on the rim of my head. So my option then is wash it again, spray it with water and the leave in, or pony tail.

9)My hair it goes down, It does not puff up like other transitioner with somewhat my type of hair, my hair goes down, which is cool, but i wonder why.Is it because its on the boader line of short and long it doesnt know where to go?

10) I am in desperate need of a deep conditioner I havent done this since 2 months and I need to do this more often like every 3 weeks to a month. Any good drug store, target, rite aid, walgreens, durane reade, ect deep conditioner.


any help is good help, and just for those who are at lost as well as I am I will be researching this things so expect a post with some names. ^_^